Ah! The first week of classes is over with. It's been a long, tiring and heinous five days, but Friday is finally here. Cheer, smile or laugh. Do whatever it takes. And to the freshmen: Congratulations! Welcome to college! Fun, isn't it?
As I enter my junior year at Ball State University, I am very excited to say that I am halfway done with school. While I have enjoyed my time in Muncie, the monotony of going to class, writing papers and studying is getting old.
Over the past two years I believe I have disliked school more than I have enjoyed it. I think we could all agree, though, that college is supposed to be fun. Maybe it's because I take school too seriously, but I want to do well. I want to see my parents' depreciated U.S. currency put to good use. When I graduate, I want to know I did my best. And if I'm lucky, I want to find a job. But how can we be successful and have fun? As you continue to adapt yourself to the college routine, I wish to offer a few suggestions.
Balance. Engrave this word into your forehead, because college is all about stability. Be an excellent person in the classroom and in extracurricular activities. Have a social life, but still be the nerd who studies for exams. And while grades are imperative, that's not what college is all about. More importantly, college is about an experience. If you can learn how to balance academics, social engagements and personal time in the next four years, consider that a success. Whatever you do, be consistent.
Evolve. I've only been in college for two years, but I have grown up tremendously. I have met incredible professors and peers who have challenged me to think and analyze the world around me. If anything, college makes you fend for yourself. And if you learn along the way, nothing will be a waste of time. If Ball State can redefine education, perhaps you can redefine yourself.
Attitude. I'm already sick of class, homework, etc. But, the mind is a powerful thing, and with a positive approach anything is possible. A relaxed and down-to-earth attitude will come in handy. Please don't stress too much over a poor grade. Move on, and, as long as you learn, that's all that really counts.
Motivation. I acknowledge that Americans take pleasure in instant gratification, but college is certainly not that. Four to five years is a long time to earn a degree. Remember that you have the power to control how any situation unfolds. If watching TV or listening to your iPod keeps you motivated when doing homework, do it.
Believe. Finally, college is all about self-efficacy. We didn't get accepted into college for nothing. Go out and make a name for yourself. Take a difficult class. Be a volunteer. Make new friends. Have a friendly relationship with your professors. Remember to minimize doubt and erase negative thoughts. If you believe you are capable of accomplishing something, that will help you out.
I think some students dislike college so much they graduate without ever enjoying a moment. There is no doubt college is stressful, but it can be exciting as well. I experienced the stress Monday when I was ambushed with a heap of syllabi, but on the other end, I'm enjoying my first year living off campus.
Whatever you do, dare to be remarkable. Whether you are a freshman or a senior, try to have fun in college while doing well in school. If you can achieve this devious task, college will be less miserable and a lot easier to appreciate.
Jason Marer is a junior social studies major and writes 'Think to Exist' for the Daily News. His views do not necessarily agree with those of the newspaper.
Write to Jason at jsmarer@bsu.edu
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